Fueled by the media, music and Hollywood and shows such as Sex in the City, Girlfriends, Seinfeld and Living Single, modern day dating has evolved into a smorgasbord of unparalleled eroticism. This riveting expose goes behind the scenes to show how modern day dating affects tomorrow’s marriages. This Is How We Do It!
Modern day dating comes in many forms. Namely: hook-ups, one-night stands, cohabitation, speed and Internet dating, bluetoothing, blind dating, serial monogamous relationships and booty calls. There is also anonymous sex, recreational sex, casual sex, group sex, safe sex, dry sex and a host of other seductive sounding dating categories coined by the sexually active and glamorized by the media, music and Hollywood. On television shows like, “Eve, One On One, Seinfeld and Half & Half,” the modern day dating scene has become a smorgasbord of earth shattering, knee buckling, commitment free, pregnancy free and disease free sex. On the screen, the stars don’t go to jail for child support. They don’t struggle with the ravages of developing full-blown AIDS or end up on an operating table in an abortion clinic. On the shows, no matter how many people they have sex with, the stars always come out on top. In “Sex in the City,” one of the characters, Samantha, played by Kim Cattrall, has sex with at least two men per episode. Although her flesh is a revolving door for nameless men, freaks, players, homosexuals and married men. She is the epitome of health and mental wellness. She bares no depression. No anger. No illegitimate kids and no sexually transmitted diseases. Nothing! Nada! Just prideful boasts of her bedroom prowess and laughter about her numerous male conquests. The Life, Times and Sex Life of Ms. Monique
Monique adopted the modern day dating syndrome while in high school and rode it out past college. She heard the “Safe sex” message and using condoms, gleefully explored and enjoined her sexuality. Although she faithfully attended church, the silky smooth, sexually charged words of R. Kelly, always echoed in her mind. Even after hearing stirring sermons on virtue, Monique didn’t see anything wrong with a little bump and grind. By the time she was 26, she had allowed about a dozen different men to pilferage her physical body and tarnish her emotions. Monique’s relationship resume included two live-in lovers. Each of those seemingly promising relationships abruptly ended when she learned she was pregnant. It is widely known that many sexually active individuals stop using condoms after they feel comfortable with their sex partners. Monique and her many lovers followed that trend. It also is widely known that very few men treasure becoming accidental dads. Especially with females they classify as: booty calls, one-night stands, casual sex partners and live-in lovers. Remember Rae Carruth and Tjane Marshall?