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Tuesday, January 22nd, 2008

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Dating and Sex

Saturday, November 10th, 2007

Being single means different things to each of us. For some it is a way of life. For a small minority, it is the way we always will be. For most of us, its is a constant battle with optimism. Hope springs eternal they say. We weren’t designed to spend our lives alone. For the solitary monk it may be a life of dedication but for us mere mortals, its is a state of being that we hope is temporary.
Being single is not easy. It means first of all that we are daily responsible for every decision we make. We can’t share decision making because there is no one close enough to share things with. We trust our friends but we will not have formed as close a bond as we do in a long term personal relationship. Therefore it us up to us to decide what we do each day, whether we go to work, what we will have for dinner, where we will go at a weekend, what we do on vacation and where and how we socialize.
When we get home in an evening there isn’t anyone there (which is why so often we have cats and dogs) to welcome us. We prepare dinner alone (or don’t bother), run a bath, take a shower and generally live a solitary existence punctuated by our social life and friends as well as work routine. One of the primary issues about being single is not being able to discuss things on our mind when we want to. In social circles we can to an extent and we may call up friends on the phone but this lacks the deeper understanding and compassion we receive from a close partner in a relationship.
We like to play ideas off each other, discuss, talk, think aloud and have pillow talk about the future. All of this is missing when single. Occasional dates or romantic encounters may provide passing closeness but in effect we remain single still. There is something interesting on the TV, but we won’t chat about that until we are at work. We have an ailment that worries us, who do we discuss that with? There is an issue with a person at work, what should we do. Friends and family play their part but they don’t fill that singleness we are likely to feel.
Cooking for one is a painful experience. What is the point of cooking a nice meal if there is no one to share it with. There is a great movie but we will watch it alone. We need to go shopping and get something new for the apartment but we are going to have to do without the fun of deciding together. Then of course there is sex. Sex-for-one is well known to most singles but its generally not what we were designed for.
Close relationships offer companionship, understanding, empathy, friendship as well as love and romance and without them, we are pretty much left to our own devices to fill that void. When we are younger there is so much to focus on that it may not be such an issue but as we get older we begin to discover that visiting the wonders of the world alone is deeply dissatisfactory.

Dating and sex are two things which are inextricably linked to a great extent and some would even go to the extent of saying that they are inseparable! There is every chance or probability that if you are having a romantic meeting then at some point you will want to go to bed with each other.

For those who are religious and for whom faith is a priority, sex remains within the boundaries of marriage. For some others sex is initially a test of compatibility - a big one. If you don’t get on well in bed, you won’t be going much further. Modern generations are sexually demanding, they know how to give and receive pleasure and expect the same in return.

  • Sex frequently occurs in the early dates with ease. From a woman’s point of view, if you look to evaluate a person, then it is advisable that you refrain from having sex on the firs date.
  • Desire over a longer period will capture the feelings and interest of a man. His emotions and feelings will become heightened the more elusive you are sexually.
  • An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men persevere to a great extent and they enjoy that experience. The longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart.

Some other related tips regarding dating and sex could be:

  • Avoid sleeping with a person on the first date
  • Do not chat about sex on the first few dates, especially if you are a man. Retain your enigma factor
  • Never admit to how many people you have slept with
  • Date people you are physically attracted to as a start
  • Sex is generally important, avoid from pretending otherwise
  • Being sexy is different to being available
  • Kissing does not mean sex
  • Have sex the first time where you are most comfortable
  • Remember that if you want to leave it is best not to sleep with your partner at your apartment
  • Always practise safe sex, there is no excuse
  • Good sex is a good start, bad sex can get better though
  • Avoid people who are selfish in their sexual needs unless you share them
  • Never do anything you are not comfortable with
  • Never ever be rushed into sex when dating

 

Sex and Desire III ,The Evolution of Desire

Monday, November 5th, 2007

Evolution of Desire
Earlier, we touched on the allure of the illicit. Here, we will explore the desire for sexual variety a little further.   The Rooster, the Hen and the Coolidge Effect
Let’s explore the evolutionary roots of desire, especially within the context of the illicit affair. The ancestral man would have most likely been motivated to have casual sex to increase his offspring, for him a huge benefit of casual sex. This ancestral drive instilled a powerful desire for sexual access to a variety of women: When Jimmy Carter said that he had “lust in his heart”, he openly expressed a universal male desire for sexual variety. Women are traditionally less interested in a variety of partners. This is sometimes referred to as the Coolidge Effect. The story goes that President Calvin Coolidge and his wife were given separate tours of new government farms. When Mrs Coolidge passed the chicken coups where a rooster was vigorously copulating with a hen, she asked the tour guide how often the rooster performed this duty. The guide answered: “Dozens of times a day”. “Make sure you mention this to the President”, replied Mrs. Coolidge. When the President passed by the coops and was told about the rooster’s performance, he asked the guide: “Always with the same hen?” “Oh, no”, the guide replied. “Always a different hen”. “Make sure you mention that to Mrs. Coolidge” said the President.   Our Promiscuous Ancestors
In the second article on sexuality and desire in this series, we also discussed the double standards in the rules applied to women and men. Robert Smith notes in Sperm Competition and the Evolution of Mating Systems: “The biological irony of the double standard is that males could not have been selected for promiscuity if historically females had always denied them opportunity for expression of the trait.”   Promiscuous Ancestral Sisters
And he’s right of course. There must have been some at least some promiscuous ancestral sisters. If all our ancestral sisters had mated for life with one single man, with no premarital sex, the opportunities for casual sex would have simply vanished! What would have been her motivation? It is unlikely that the need for more offspring was what motivated her. Having multiple partners would not have increased her reproductive capacities, and a minimum amount of sex is all she would have needed, and there is rarely a shortage of men willing to oblige. Perhaps sex would have given her a back-up protector. Or it may have gained her access to more food or other resources. David Buss notes that in many traditional communities, such as the native people of the Trobriand Islands, men bring food or jewelry to their mistresses. No gifts spell no good. First off, there will be no sex, but furthermore, failure to bring gifts will ruin his reputation among the women in the community, and he’ll have a tough time attracting mistresses in the future. Studies on contemporary mating shows that modern women are much like their ancestral sisters- the one quality they particularly value in lovers is generosity. Interestingly, women’s desires in a short-term sex partner are very similar to her desires in a husband. In both cases, Buss notes, women look for someone who is kind, romantic, exciting, stable, healthy, humorous and generous. In both contexts, women prefer men who are tall, athletic and attractive. Men on the other hand, tend to be easy going as far as standards go-, which of course makes their pool for potential sex partners bigger.   An Ancestral Past Filled With Affairs
Our ancestral past is filled with affairs. Alarming? Perhaps. Women might find the ease with which men hit the sack with other women disturbing, and men might be shocked to see their wives encourage other men or be unfaithful. But social traditions concerning sexuality and desire are being revised, redefined and negotiated both in Western as well as in non-Western countries. Modern technology and urban living conditions allow many of us to escape the potential risks, costs and consequences of casual affairs. Reducing these negative consequences and acknowledging the complexity and paradox of desire and sexuality may offend our socially constructed idea of matrimonial bliss, but it also empowers us to more fully express our desire and sexuality

Casual Sex

Friday, October 12th, 2007

Sex is something that is more than a good time-it is sharing a special time with somebody you deeply love and care about. It is more than just kissing and flirting, it is intimate and special. That is why so many people find it difficult to understand how people can go around having casual sex (sex with friends or “hooking up” with people that will never turn into a relationship). I personally do not agree with casual sex.

To me, having sex is saying “I love you” in the most intimate way there is. It is showing somebody that you love and care for them, and are willing to take chances to be with them. Sex can be very emotional-you are sharing your body with another human being. To most, sex is more than just a physical act-emotions are a big part of it. Having casual sex can create confusion, especially if after having sex, one of the two people feel that what they have with that other person is more than they thought. In other words, if the two decide to have “no strings attached sex” but then one person finds after they have sex that they feel something for the other person, things can get difficult.

Other dangers involved in having casual sex are the typical risks of sex; pregnancy and STDs (sexually transmitted disease). It is a lot easier to contract a STD when you are having sex with somebody that you are not serious about. Chances are you did not make sure that that person was tested, and they could have very well had sex with other people who could have given them the disease. If it is with a boyfriend or girlfriend, then you know (hopefully!) that your partner is not with other people, and so you know that he or she is safe (assuming you were both tested, which is definitely something that you should do before having sex with anyone, including a boyfriend or girlfriend, even if you think you know them well).

Author - Allie S

Fear of Intimacy in the Bedroom

Wednesday, September 19th, 2007

Casual sex is risky, mysterious, and sometimes full of urgency. It’s exciting because feelings of chemistry and conquest are alive; there are elements of fear, adventure and unlimited possibilities. The sympathetic nervous system is on full alert, blood pressure is high, and heart rate is racing.

In casual sex, the moment is all you have. You’re not worried about what your partner thinks of you and you’re not concerned about what you think of them. You don’t have to fear rejection, and you can engage in fantasies and personas you wouldn’t normally consider. There may still be a sense of responsibility and even care, but there isn’t usually a commitment.

And there’s no intimacy to kill the mood.

For some, knowing too much about your partner is a turnoff. Emotional intimacy makes you vulnerable and open for rejection, hurt, and even attack. It renders you powerless to protect your heart and mind, and that may not get - or keep - the engines humming.

Committed sex usually involves knowledge of one another: personalities mesh, habits are explored, quirks familiar, and hopes and dreams shared. For most couples, intimacy leads to heightened sexual attraction and more physical expressions of love and commitment. Sexual experimentation is more likely, and sexual satisfaction achieved more often. The focus in committed sex is usually deeper connections and more emotional satisfaction (and maybe an orgasm or two).

So, is committed or casual sex better?

It depends on you: your past, your perspective, and your preferences. Some people view committed sex with as much distaste as others view casual sex - it really is a matter of personal opinion and choice.

As with most issues, it’s not black and white; there is a continuum. The mystery, urgency, and risk of casual sex at one end of the spectrum gradually morphs into the trust, intimacy, and mind-body-soul connection of committed sex.

Your end of the spectrum is determined by your personality, past experiences, and psyche.

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Jumpstart Your Sex Life

Monday, August 6th, 2007

Repetition is great–if you’re learning Spanish, grooving your backhand, or making sure the sutures don’t rupture. But it’s death for your sex life, turning the pursuit of happiness into a holding pattern. Over Newark.

Well, enough of that stuff. It’s time to accelerate your pulse with some good, clean, original sex. It doesn’t mean risking arrest in a public garden–although it could–but it does mean injecting surprise into the proceedings. Yes, surprise–even if you think you know her body better than the quickest route to the local 7-Eleven.

We have 32 ideas to launch a voyage of sexual discovery unlike anything you’ve seen . . . at least since Cindy Lou let down her guard senior year. The difference now: You know what you’re doing, and you have a partner who deserves your respect, attention, and devotion. So make the most of it. Now, repeat after us, “I will . . . ”

1. START THE ACTION ANYWHERE EXCEPT THE BEDROOM.

The same old place is too conducive to the same old patterns, says Stella Resnick, Ph.D., a psychologist in West Hollywood and author of The Pleasure Zone. Explore some new erogenous areas: The kitchen. The bathroom. Quebec City. Your bodies will be in new places, making it unlikely that you’ll follow old routines.

2. COMPLIMENT HER.

And keep doing it . . . at least five times a day. It’ll make her feel noticed, special, and appreciated, and she’ll feel closer to you. “The more connected she feels, the more sexually inspired she’ll feel,” says Laura Berman, Ph.D., director of the Berman Center in Chicago. Compliment what she feels good about and cares about–her hair, shoes, singing voice, work triumphs–says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a sex therapist and the author of Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex. A confident sex partner is an adventurous sex partner.

3. GO CANOEING OR HIKING.

Add a distinct but manageable touch of danger to the day. It will stimulate dopamine in her brain, which may trigger her sex drive, says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist at Rutgers University and the author of Why We Love. Pick the right trip–a guided whitewater excursion, for instance–and learn all about both the risks and the precautions you’ll take. She’ll see you as the cause of the excitement, as well as the source of security. Book the right B&B for the afternoon dry-off and you’re set.

4. WATCH PORN WITH THE SOUND OFF . . .

Sure, you’ll miss the snappy plumber-housewife banter. But now you two provide the dialogue. You’ll learn how to talk erotically, so it’s educational. But it’s also fun, you’re both invested in it, and it can help reveal fantasies, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a sex therapist and the author of Love around the House. And you’ll probably find some way to kill time during the sex scenes.

5. . . . OR SEE A CHICK FLICK.

Maybe porn isn’t her thing. But Pitt, Clooney, or McConaughey might be, and for her, these guys are porn, Brame says. She’ll be fantasizing about a man who’s sweet and will treat her well. And when he kisses the flirty female lead, you kiss your lady at the same time. Show her that reality–her life–can be better than that.

Have Sex Outside the Bedroom

Monday, August 6th, 2007

Sex outside of the bedroom should mean more than his ‘n’ hers loofahs. “There are plenty of other things around the house that can really spice up your love life,” says Laura Berman, Ph.D., president and director of the Berman Center and author of The Passion Prescription. You already have the tool; use these tips to pull off an Extreme Makeover: Home Edition of your own.

KITCHEN COUNTER

The Upgrade: Place her on the edge of the surface (the kitchen table or sink will work just as well) and stand facing her with her feet resting on your hips or behind your butt.

 

The Payoff: The solid surface will make even slow, small thrusts intense,” says Isadora Alman, author of Real People Having Really Good Sex. The change of venue can’t hurt, either.

PILLOWS

The Upgrade: Place one or two fluffy pillows under her butt during missionary-style sex. Slide your hands under her shoulders, moving forward until your chest is aligned with her face. Rock back and forth, using the base of your penis to put pressure on her clitoris.

 

The Payoff: Orgasm hinges on clitoral stimulation for 65 percent of women, according to The Hite Report. This move also reaches different parts of her vagina, and “the angle may intensify your pleasure, too,” says Joy Davidson, Ph.D., author of Fearless Sex.

WASHING MACHINE

The Upgrade: During the spin cycle (fastest vibrations), sit your partner on the edge of the machine with her legs bent and feet on your shoulders. As the machine pulsates, bend or kneel and provide oral stimulation.

 

The Payoff: “The pulsations will bring blood to the pelvic area and enhance sensation,” says Davidson. Bonus: no chin-in-the-mattress neck stiffness.

 

HAIRBRUSH

The Upgrade: Keeping your wrist loose, give her a sharp thwap on the caboose with a harmless hairbrush, wooden spoon, or spatula. Be careful not to overdo it.

 

The Payoff: “Light spanking hyperstimulates the nerves, intensifying sensation in the stimulated areas,” says Richard Emerson, author of The Best Sex You’ll Ever Have.

MIRRORS

The Upgrade: Ask her to hold on to the sink and look into the mirror while you enter her from behind.

 

The Payoff: More eye contact during the G-spot–targeting rear-entry position. “It’s instant intimacy,” says Emerson.

THE STAIRS

The Upgrade: Sit on the stairs, facing the railing, with one leg braced a stair or two down and the other leg slightly bent. Ask her to lower herself onto you, facing the rail and holding it for support.

 

The Payoff: “This helps women who don’t have enough leg strength to do the reverse cowgirl,” says Davidson. “Plus, it’s great when you can’t quite make it to the bedroom.”

SOFA

The Upgrade: Ask her to straddle the arm of the couch, facedown, as you enter her from behind. Bonus: Place a silk scarf over the sofa’s arm. “Her breasts and clitoris will rub against the fabric,” says Davidson.

 

The Payoff:  Multiple stimulation, minimal effort. “Sometimes the bed is too soft, too low, or too boring to achieve the position you want,” says Suzi Godson, author of Sexploration. This will allow her soft spots to grind on the cushy arm of the sofa.